A Mayflower's Musings

Monday, January 2, 2012

The Absence of a Friend

I know sometimes it's hard enough to put yourself into someone else's heart when we are comparing human stories, so when it comes to animals it must be even harder. So I don't expect you to think long on this or shed a tear. But we lost our 11 1/2 year old dog this weekend.

We've had him since he was 7 weeks old so he's been a part of most of Mike's and my marriage. He lived with us in three different houses and was around for each of the kids' homecomings. And now every time I turn a corner or open a door I expect to see him or go to feed him and he's not there.

For a very sentimental person I don't have a lot of words, except that Gus will genuinely be missed. He had a kinder soul than most people I've met and a gentler way with kids than most adults I know too. Fortunately he had a great last 6 months - with a first and last trip to our family lake cabin, a summer spent at our parent's 85 acre property keeping my father in law company all the days long, a really memorable fall walk, and a recent outing to the beach.

Here's some of my favorite last pictures of him.



5 comments:

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry for your loss, Stef. Gus was a sweet boy. Hugs and love to you, Mike & the kids. ~Char

Lynn said...

So sorry for your loss, dog are like our first kids, hugs!

Anonymous said...

Sad. :(
I still remember Gus sitting on my lap as a puppy, driving around with you in your black Honda! :)

crystalkupper said...

I'm so sorry! I'm definitely a dog lover and completely understand how they can be part of the family. I'm already worried about how it will be when we lose Klaus. I'll be thinking of you. Thank you God for Gus!

Erica Brown said...

I am so glad you had such a loving and loyal friend and I know he will live on in your hearts forever. Hugs.