A "grand" haven for this mama....

Last night was the talent show at Grandhaven elementary school and all the girls had an act in the show.  I couldn't help but reflect about the relationships the girls and I have made in that community.

Whether the friendships I've made have come from volunteering,  sports,  Missoula children's theater plays,  neighborhood life,  pick-up time,  or substitute teaching -  there are many with parents,  teachers and kids alike.

I just couldn't live life in isolation-  I thrive by reaching out,  pulling in and often asking for help.  And through it all I've found that by seeking relationships -  I've stayed afloat.  

Last night as almost each student approached the mic I could say I knew them-  and a lot of them have been in my home.  I could also look around and give their parents a cheerful smile or encouraging knowing-ful look...

They've been the ones I've texted and emailed and called and waved and laughed and cried with month after month.

So many friends-  good years!!  

As Daphne says goodbye to Grandhaven I will be sad that those six years of her life flew by so fast but mindful of the growth and love provided in a nurturing school.

So grateful for all the teachers and friends we've met along the way.  This mother could never had done it without you all!!!

This is how I feel loved...

Last year on Mother's Day and it happened to be my birthday as well... I spent the whole day removing nits from maisie's hair,  treating everyone's hair,  washing all the bedding and freezing stuffed animals!

This year is completely the opposite.  

I know some of you fellow mothers want a massage or new dress or manicure etc etc but if I have my choice I always ask for alone time!  I need it like air.  

I asked for a wee little bit and mike blew that request outta de water-- he decided to take the kids to the beach for Friday night through Sunday morning!

I'm.all.alone!  Well there's Tate....  

But anyway it's Harry Potter #7, my favorite shows and actually enjoying some house chores needing done!

My hero.  Thanks honey.  He just sent me this picture and there's nothin like stepping aside from your blessings and seeing them from a distance to realize how stinkin rich you are....my babies-  my husband.  That's all I need.

And I feel like I can do it again -another week.  I can fight the depression that is real in my body and the constant pressures of the world on females and moms and the high expectations I put on myself.  

Don't be afraid to ask for help fellow mamas when you need it!  I did-  I do- and I have lots of helpers -  love to all my blog followers.

Chances are if you are reading this I consider you my village.